Well, we are very much a like and this sometimes has its downfall. I try to see mainly positive things, but lately I have noticed he hasn't as much interest in me.  This is bothersome, since we've only been married for 3 months lol. Wonderful. 
He has been very stressed these past couple of months and I wonder if I am just babying him too much.  It seems men become cocky when women are nice to them; and when women are mean to them, they fall in love...

I think I should find other interests outside of this.

I have become unnerved by his constant neg attitude and violent tendencies. Sometimes I feel as though I was just settled for, even though most men find me very attractive ~ he seems to be one of these "The grass is always greener..."

I am also very much interested in lifestyle BDSM, however I have brought it up over and over, only for him to not show any interest.